alexanderfischer1950 | 
09 3rd, 2010| 
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My boyfriend smells really badly, and he just won't take the hint? Even when I tell him flat out?
My boyfriend and I are both 21, and have been dating for 3 years. Recently, he has smelling really badly whenever I am around him. I ask him if he showers, brushes his teeth, etc..because I cannot for the life of me understand what is making him smell so bad. Recently, I was at his house, and I saw that he throws his laundry all over the place, doesn’t wash his bed sheets, his house smelled musky and moldy, like he had mold. He told me" I shower twice a day, and wash my hair one of those times each day". Well, the smell isn’t his hair, trust me. And sometimes he has even told me he forgets to brush his teeth for a couple of days! He is 21, he should not be acting like a 5 year old! And plus, he is over weight, and that being said, sweats more and seems to stink more. I ask him politely to put on more deodarant or shower again, and he says " I already put it on once today, and that’s it im going to put it on". I don’t know what to do with him. I love him, but it’s never been as bad as this. I don’t want to have a boyfriend that I have to go over and clean and wash his clothes, his bedsheets, remind him to wash right, or brush his teeth! I have tried sitting down talking to him, but he seems to just not care!! Should I just take this as a bad sign and just leave him??
Ugh, I know a guy just like this and he’s a 40 year old man. He is the uncle of my boyfriend, and you’d think all the time he spent in the Army would have taught him some grooming and self respect, but he spends most of his time in a depression and doesn’t care to do the normal hygiene routines that most people do. Sadly, you can’t change people like this…really. You can’t make anyone AWARE of how bad they smell. They have to be aware of it, and embarrassed by themselves.
The guy I know will show up at Thanksgiving and Christmas just REEKING and no one wants to give him a hug, and guess what? He always wants one! He still doesn’t understand why women won’t give him the time of day….uh, maybe bc you spend all day on the computer and then play racketball and don’t shower…and eat OLD things that have been left on the stove for days. YEah. Gross.
If it were me, I would break up with him. NO explanation needed. If he can’t care about anything and refuses to acknowledge he stinks and needs to clean his house…he’s not going to -ever. Most guys are not totally clean and have bad habits, but this…this is just outright disgusting. Imagine if you stayed with him and a few years later you marry the stinky ba$tard (God forbid!)…do you really think he’s going to pick up after himself at home or ever wash a dish etc.? No. He’s going to expect YOU to do it, since he doesn’t care enough. And honey, you can change a man’s habits but it takes YEARS (from my own personal experience). Imagine him leaving half empty food bowls and stinking up YOUR house you worked hard for….not a pleasant picture. I’m thinking if you end it, he will POSSIBLY see the error of his ways and start making an effort. But I wouldn’t tell him WHY you are ending it….make him figure it out, dude. Hygiene is NOT rocket science
The Devil | Feb 09, 2010
tell him he stinks
if he doesn’t take the hint, leave him.
fa fas | Feb 09, 2010
ugh girl leave him b4 he gives u sum infection…datz nasty
F1RME HYN4 | Feb 09, 2010
leave. he does not care
la vie est belle | Feb 09, 2010
I think that’s disgusting :/ If he’s gonna be a slob and not clean up after himself even when asked, leave the guy. I wouldn’t be able to stand that.
Shake it Shay(: | Feb 09, 2010
Give him an ultimatum: he needs to clean himself up or you’re leaving.
Kelsey | Feb 09, 2010
if he is not giving importance to what u say to him ,then leave him.
i am i | Feb 09, 2010
gross…leave him. If he doesn’t care then why should you.
Rachel | Feb 09, 2010
yeah i would leave him that is horrible
Anaek | Feb 09, 2010
I think you know what you need to do ..
Leave him if he can’t take care of himself
Good Hygiene is very important and it sounds like he is lazy and doesn’t even care to brush his teeth why would you want to be with a guy who has no respect for himself ?
Boo | Feb 09, 2010
if you really love him, DO NOT just leave him right away. maybe through your actions, you can show him that the smell is affecting you. stop hanging around him and stop meeting up with him for a little while. if he asks you why, you can tell him, the smell is really that serious. If this goes on, and it doesnt change, you really need to emphasize to him that his smell is making you grow apart and you are considering ending things. he should take you seriously. if he cares about you, he’d be willing to smell good for you. no sense in making his own girlfriend uncomfortable around him. good luck
and i dont understand all the thumbs down. There must be some really ignorant and shallow people here….
…….. | Feb 09, 2010
Part of his odor might be due to bad nutrition. That is probably the case if a shower a day does not keep him smelling civilized. (There is a medical problem where a person smells fishy, even after a shower. That is probably not his problem, though.)
He seems not to care. He is not trying to solve the problem, and he is not a clean person, even though he showers daily. When you tell him he smells bad, he gets defensive, avoiding the problem rather than addressing it. Don’t think it will get any better once you are legally tied to him!
I’d leave.
Maryfrances | Feb 09, 2010
YUCK.
Kiwi | Feb 09, 2010